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October 12, 2009
Topic: Forgiveness

Dear Church Leader:

The title of Jim Belcher’s article is “Deep Church, Sweet Church, Your Church?” However, he could well have called it “Deep Church, Sour Church, Your Church?” What makes the difference between a sweet and a sour church? It doesn’t have anything to do with Chinese soup, but I’ll let Jim answer the question himself.

I know this: God’s wish for your church is that it be a sweet church, as Paul has described in Colossians.

Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentle-ness and patience. Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.”
(Colossians 3:12-14)
May your church overflow with a sweetness of spirit, even as the spirit of Jesus is sweet within his people.

Loving Jesus together with you,

Ron Forseth
General Editor
SermonCentral.com



Jim Belcher

Deep Church, Sweet Church, Your Church?

Unity and the Need for Forgiveness

by Jim Belcher
TheDeepChurch.com

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Why do Christians have such a hard time forgiving one another? Why, instead of bearing with one another in love, do we let small resentments build into a flood of bitterness that defiles everyone? Is it true, as John Stott says, that Christians have a pathological tendency to split? In my experience, splits are almost never over theological issues. They are usually over resentments that build up over small differences in philosophy of ministry or personal conflict.

I have been thinking about bitterness and forgiveness all week in the wake of the conflict at Coral Ridge Presbyterian Church, the famous church pastored by D. James Kennedy for 48 years. This past March, Coral Ridge called Tullian Tchividjian, the grandson of Billy Graham, to be their senior pastor. Less than six months later, at a congregational meeting, over 400 members voted for his resignation; two-thirds voted to retain him. What had gone wrong? How did the unity of this church get so badly broken? How did this disagreement get to the point where it was spilling out into the public and getting coverage by the local media?

It is not my goal in this article to sort out who is right and wrong. Frankly, I am not sure. There are always two sides to a story, and usually both sides have contributed to the mess. For something to get to this point, people on both sides of the argument have failed to love one another, bear with one another, speak the truth in love, and confront one another properly (Eph. 4:2, 4:31-32; Col. 3:13). Bitterness has taken root, and it has defiled everyone (Heb. 12:15). Unity is broken, and the church’s witness to a watching world has been compromised. That much is clear.

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