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Compassionate Leadership for Pastors
by Paul Cedar
Editor’s Note: Pastors are called to engage a wide range of spiritual gifts in their ministry. Or, if they lack the gifts, they must at least develop the skills. The skill of leadership is a high expectation upon you as a pastor as you guide your church. The sometimes messy business of leadership is an opportunity to bless those you lead—or to do them and yourself great harm. Dr. Paul Cedar, one of the great Christian leaders of our time, served as pastor of Lake Avenue Congregational Church in Pasadena, CA, as national President of the Evangelical Free Church, and as international Chairman of the Lausanne Committee for World Evangelization. He now serves as President and CEO of the Mission America Coalition. In this article, Dr. Cedar shares a gentle and important reminder of what it means to lead like Jesus led, as a compassionate leader. If you’d like to read more on this important topic, you may obtain a copy of Ted Engstrom and Paul Cedar’s book Compassionate Leadership directly from the publisher.
Jesus had a radical leadership style, a style that was marked by compassion. This is in stark contrast to the hard-driven, results-oriented corporate executive style often set before us as an example. For Jesus, leadership was not about power, management and organization, but about generosity, believing in people, meeting needs, encouraging others, and getting excited about good things that happen to others. He is our pastoral model for compassionate service…and compassionate leadership.
Through many years in varied situations and during complex leadership challenges, Dr. Ted Engstrom and I have come back to the simplicity that is in Jesus’ leadership style. My prayer is that you may avert the pitfalls of a worldly leadership style by following the model of our Lord. I’ve become convinced that along this path you will find greater ministry success and eternal impact—as you lead the flock entrusted to you. Here, I’d like to share briefly the core attributes of Jesus’ compassionate leadership style as they apply to pastors:
The Compassionate Pastor leads…like a Shepherd
The entire concept of serving as a leader in Christ’s Kingdom relates to people more than tasks. Compassionate leaders are people-oriented. In terms of priority, people trump tasks and goals. Whatever the ministry might be to which God has entrusted us, we are directed to shepherd the people whom God is calling us to lead.
However pastors serve in leadership roles, it is always appropriate to be a shepherd leader—like Jesus. Gentle. Humble. Servant-oriented. At the same time, we must often remind ourselves that believers who are following our leadership belong to God’s flock and not our own. We are simply the under-
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| shepherds or “under-leaders” of Jesus Christ, the Chief Shepherd. In an honest examination of our own leadership style, we may ask, “Is my leadership marked by a highest priority on people?” In Christ-filled leadership, we will discover people are always our priority. Click here to read more.
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Accept One Another
by Jeremy Houck
Romans 14:1-14:12
Let me tell you about two churches. Both meet regularly. Both communicate a message. Both offer communion and take up a collection at every meeting. They both have their own unique music which more…
Accepting Each Other
by Tony Grant
Romans 14:1
According to a fable, one day Abraham was sitting by his tent door when he saw coming along the way a very old man. With true Bedouin hospitality, Abraham invited the old man to a meal. At the meal, more…
How to Show Love and Acceptance
by Ray Ellis
John 8:1-8:11
The saying goes that confession is good for the soul. I regret to tell that in my younger years I got very mad at my sister who is 4 years older than I. I got so mad at her that I picked up a rock and threw it at more…
In Pursuit of Peace
by Mitchell Skelton
Romans 14:1-14:23
The other night at worship, my son, John Austin, asked Sheryl, "Mom, why does everybody call daddy, Brother Mitchell?" As Sheryl did her best to explain to him how we are all brothers and sisters in Christ and more...
Don’t Judge Others . . . Judge Yourself!
by Jonathan McLeod
Romans 14:1-14:12
There’s the story of the conscientious wife who tried very hard to please her ultracritical husband, but failed regularly. He always seemed the most cantankerous at breakfast. If the eggs were scrambled, he more...
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Concrete Love
Pastor Joel Gregory tells the story of a seminary professor who taught the Christian graces of love and forbearance for forty years until he retired.
Occupying himself in his retirement years, he poured a new concrete driveway to his house. Finished, he went in to rest and get a glass of iced tea. Returning later to view his proud achievement, he discovered that the neighborhood kids were putting their footprints all in the wet concrete. The angry professor chased the kids down in a rage and beat the tar out of the ones he could catch.
Hearing the commotion, the professor’s wife rushed into the yard, saw the angry professor thrashing the kids, and began to reprimand him: "What a shame," she said. "For forty years you have taught love, forgiveness and forbearance. Now look at you. You’ve lost your testimony." To which he replied: "That was all in the abstract. This is in the concrete."
Contributed by: Glenn Hickey

Acceptance Through His Example
Imagine two country clubs. The first has a strict set of rules and only allows in people who have earned their membership. They have to accomplish something, obtain superior wisdom, or fulfill a long list of demands and requirements to qualify for entry. Despite their best efforts, lots of people just won’t make the grade and will be excluded. In effect, this is what other religious systems are like.
But the second country club throws its doors wide open and says, "Anybody who wants membership is invited inside. Rich or poor, black or white, regardless of your ethnic heritage or where you live, we would love to include you. Entry is based not on your qualification but only on accepting this invitation. So we’ll leave the matter up to you. You decide. But remember, we will never turn you away if you seek admittance." That’s what Christianity is like.
Which country club is being snobbish? Christians aren’t being exclusive; they’re being inclusive. They’re not being haughty; they’re being egalitarian.
SOURCE: Lee Strobel, God’s Outrageous Claims, pp. 192-193
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Ubuntu
We have a word in Africa - ‘ubuntu.’ Ubuntu says that I can only know myself as I see myself through your eyes - so the closer you stand to me, the better I can know myself. That is authentic New Testament community.
Contributed by: Emile Wolfaard

Skating on the Lord’s Day
The story was told some years ago of a pastor who found the roads blocked one Sunday morning and was forced to skate on the river to get to church, which he did. When he arrived the elders of the church were horrified that their preacher had skated on the Lord’s Day. After the service they held a meeting where the pastor explained that it was either skate to church or not go at all. Finally one elder asked, “Did you enjoy it?” When the preacher answered, “No,” the board decided it was all right!
SOURCE: Today in the Word, MBI, December, 1989, p. 12
Contributed by: Lou Nicholes

A Barbed Ballroom
What if porcupines could dance? They are God’s idea of the animal kingdom’s version of a cactus. Imagine a cactus gliding, twirling around the ballroom as the orchestra plays a waltz. Or look at that cactus in an embrace of the tango - striding, dipping, heads bobbing to the music. Cheek-to-cheek. Arm-in-arm. Quill–to-quill. Ouch! The only porcupine I want to see at a dance is a wallflower, standing alone along the wall, punch in hand, a good distance from the crowd. No dance, no partner, no pain.
Many who come into a local church think it looks more like a porcupine ball than a tightly knit family.
Contributed by: Kenneth Squires
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